{"id":87,"date":"2008-06-02T18:03:28","date_gmt":"2008-06-02T23:03:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/2008\/06\/02\/on-just-not-getting-it\/"},"modified":"2008-06-11T11:40:02","modified_gmt":"2008-06-11T16:40:02","slug":"on-just-not-getting-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/2008\/06\/02\/on-just-not-getting-it\/","title":{"rendered":"On Just Not Getting It"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><font color=\"#0000ff\">Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.  -Abraham Lincoln<\/font><\/em><\/p>\n<p>A recent article in the times talked about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2008\/06\/01\/fashion\/01rich.html\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;the less rich.&#8221; <\/a>Those who net worth changed from 20 to 8 million, or who have to live with one less zero on a 7 figure bank account.  As with us &#8220;poor&#8221; It&#8217;s all about appearances, and these people are truly terrified of either a spouse leaving, being snubbed at a country club or their children not being invited to the right birthday parties.<\/p>\n<p>Seriously?<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I know, in my heart, the article is trying to state that we all have problems, and for our necessary consumption levels, be it 1000 a month, or 1Mill, we have problems affording the things we do, yet, my ability to relate seems to hit the cold, dead calculation of reason. 1 million reasons<\/p>\n<p>Thou, the problem of not relating seems be prevalent in our daily lives.  Single people don&#8217;t relate well to Married people, and even less so when the married people are actually friendly.   Then, there is the third wheel factor.  I shouldn&#8217;t say married really, couples.  Couples together.<\/p>\n<p>There are other things.  Children. If you don&#8217;t have any, stories of firsts this or that are just stories and never seem to grab the same way.<\/p>\n<p>Even activities play a part.  The Golfing Crowd vs The Tennis Crowd.  The Bar Crowd vs the Club Crowd.   I wonder if everything we do in our lives involve groups, or methods of inclusions and exclusions?<\/p>\n<p>Alas, I don&#8217;t want to drift, because this editorial is about not getting it, whatever it is, that something that is truly un-understandable to someone who has not experienced it&#8230;. the rich are less rich.<\/p>\n<p>I think my mom still hides money under the mattress.\u00a0 I have no sympathy for those who have it (money, fame, etc) and cry about not having MORE!\u00a0 Who hasn&#8217;t played the lotto game &#8220;what would i do with 1 Million Dollars?&#8221; We all can find ways to save parse it, and live well with such paltry means.<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, I still don&#8217;t get it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt. -Abraham Lincoln A recent article in the times talked about &#8220;the less rich.&#8221; Those who net worth changed from 20 to 8 million, or who have to live with one less zero on a 7 figure bank account. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[285,284],"class_list":["post-87","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-commentary","tag-consumption","tag-rich"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=87"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/87\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=87"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=87"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thestormypresent.com\/ocean\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=87"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}